When you trust yourself you create extraordinary by choosing to live from responsible. When you do, you make the most of your life by listening to your heart. When you mix in risk, aka the doorway to living in the realm of possibility, you will capture all your goals and dreams.
Trust is paramount in every relationship including the one you have with yourself. If you operate your life from I Don’t Trust as a belief, it’s almost always as a result of an emotional experience that did not feel good or have a positive outcome when you were young and forming your belief system. If trusting others is an issue today, somewhere in your past you most likely put your trust in someone, or something, and the result was far different from your expectations. For example, as an adult, you may have trusted a man or woman with your love, faith, health or money and as a result of them breaking your trust, your heart was broken, your faith was challenged, you got physically ill or a loan was not paid back. Those experiences reinforced an earlier belief and now, you get to be right that I “shouldn’t” have trusted someone or something. That thought process is an ineffective and unconscious mindset.
I believe when a human be-ing lives from consciousness, they get to choose whether “I will” or “will not” trust. It’s operating from be-ing present in ones life, living in the now and choosing not to be a victim to their ineffective beliefs. When you do trust yourself, your heart, your intuition, whether the outcome is what you like or not, you get to own that result and not be a victim to it. That risk itself, is the doorway to living a life of infinite possibility where all your goals and dreams exist. Just something to think about.
“Trusting yourself is paramount for personal mastery.” – Tom Haupt
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Embrace Risk, Embrace Success in 2010 – Tom Haupt
Tom,
It’s a matter of realizing that when things happen, they are only events. WE chose the meaning to attach to the event, whether good or bad. Learning to believe and trust yourself begins with letting this go.
It amazes me how much your focus can shift once you empower your life through positive forces, not allowing the victim mode to set in. that has never served anyone.
Great points,
Val